How much can a man that is not a millionaire or making six figures contribute to the household and he got six kids? Its common sense that this situation is not optimal for a woman of her status. Now, I know times are different, but there has to be some middle ground here. Why we always got to be accepting or overlooking crap in order to find love? I call bullsh*t! Finances matter!!!!! Its not about being materialistic, but the main cause of divorce is finances!!!! I was always taught that a man is supposed to protect and PROVIDE. Ain't nobody tell none of those damaged females on the RHONJ, RHONY, RHOBEVHILLS, or RHOOrange county to date down in order to find love. I don't know why we black women are made to feel in order to find love we must settled. If he is in arrears on child support payments, the courts can come for her checks. Marrying a man with a gaggle of geese who isn't financially stable. I'm all for marrying for love, but she should've learned by now. Then she spun it into the "single mom narrative." Disregard the fact that she was treating everyone around her like sh*t. Naturally, I stayed away.įast-forward, there were pics of Jill on blogs, pregnant, walking with Jon. When I told my friend, my friend advised me of Jon's plan to link up with Jill and get her pregnant. When I met him, he was trying to talk to me. I was advised to stay away from Jon, her son's father. That member of her management team went on to work with Trey Songz. She parted ways with him around the same time she parted ways with her ex-husband. I knew someone in her management team who was a great guy. IDK if someone has it in for her as much as since Jill's star has risen, she has been acting quite different than she did when she started. Tags: celebrity news, celebrity wedding, DJ Mars, Jill Scott, Mike Dobson, wedding photos "If you make it over the six month hump, you have done something. Scott told any man who wants her hand in marriage has to pass her 6 month test. We have to change our mentality if we want relationships that will last." Our idea of love and having that is great, but the immediate gratification of having it all is what most people are after in this microwavable world. In this quick-paced world, we want immediate gratification. It requires and demands mutual respect and understanding. "Love is bigger than just the emotion for the moment. Or, we're into someone for a couple of months and then the novelty fades and we're on to the next," she said. "We get caught up in someone's looks, or their money, but not the person.
In an interview with, Scott discussed the pitfalls of rushing into a marriage based on infatuation and lust. And she has a 7-year-old son with her former drummer, Li'l Jon Roberts. She divorced her first husband, Lyzell Williams, in 2007 after 6 years of marriage.
Probably because those child support payments are weighing heavily on his mind? The tipster also said Dobson is a 40-something father-of-six who is "recently divorced," and he was "anxious" to get married. Judging by what DJ Mars wrote, it seems Dobson was eager to rush Scott down the aisle a year ago, and maybe she told him to pump his brakes?Ī tipster whispered in my ear that Dobson is a city employee whose annual salary won't cover Scott's bills of $50,000 a month. His posts - along with the wedding photos and videos - were all deleted. He’s a total class act,he won with the wedding! #djmarsapproved This wedding made my summer! I’ve known Mike for almost 20 years,but dude could have alluded to the fact that he was marrying Jill Scott(lol)! All he said was,u are working with her in Vegas. “He came to my house and gave me the deposit early, but he didn’t say he was marrying Jill Scott!!!!! Damn homie!!!!!!!!!! “So my man called me a year ago and said, ‘Mars I need you to DJ my wedding… don’t get booked on June 25th 2016!'” wrote DJ Mars. Mars, who was asked to DJ the wedding a year ago, wrote: That's Mars pictured on the right with the happy couple at their wedding. We know this because DJ Mars, a local DJ with numerous celebrity clients, spilled the beans on on Saturday. Is it true what they’re saying about Jill Scott’s husband?Īs you know, singer/actress Jill Scott tied the knot with her boyfriend Mike Dobson in a secret ceremony at her Franklin, TN home on Saturday, June 25th.